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You Don’t Have to Earn Love
You never had to perform for love.You didn’t have to shrink, smile, or stay silent to be worthy.The love that made you feel small wasn’t...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jun 51 min read


Silence Is a Survival Response
If you were quiet… If you disappeared in a room… If you never said a word— That was not weakness. That was strategy. That was safety....
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jun 31 min read


You Are Not What Happended To You
You are not your trauma.You are the strength it took to survive it.You are the softness that still dared to love.You are the proof...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jun 21 min read


My Love Language Is Safety
My love language is safety. Not just flowers or words. But being able to breathe. To speak without being shut down. To cry without being...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 231 min read


We're Still Focused on Men's Mental Health/Trauma History and Its Impact on Their Intimate Relationships
“He doesn’t need to be fully healed—but he does need to be actively healing.” A man’s unprocessed pain is not your burden to carry. His...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 151 min read


“When he says, ‘I’m not used to being cared for,’ believe him — and move slowly.”
So many men walk into relationships carrying silent grief: -from mothers who were emotionally unavailable, -from partners who mocked or...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 141 min read


What's Behind Your Pain?????
To help someone overcome their fears, we must first help them understand why they have them. As humans, we often rush to comfort, to fix,...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 131 min read


Holding Space for Grief & Loss This Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day is often painted as a time of joy and celebration — but for many, it also brings waves of grief, longing, and complicated...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 81 min read


Maternal Mental Health Awareness
Honoring Maternal Mental Health — Centering Black & Brown Mothers May is Mental Health Awareness Month — and it's also a vital time to...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 61 min read


Mental Health in the Workplace: Now More Than Ever
With ongoing layoffs, job insecurity, and the pressures of returning to office spaces, many Americans are carrying heavy emotional...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 51 min read


Disconnect to Reconnect — Especially for Our Youth
📵 Digital Detox & Youth Mental Health 💚 In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month Today’s youth are more connected than ever — yet many...
Binta Alleyene-Green
May 41 min read


Embracing Neurodiversity: A Vital Component of DEI
There's so much misinformation about what DEI is and isn't and at a time when DEI policies have and are being dismantled, it's important...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Apr 151 min read


Autism Is Not A Disease!!!!
💙 Autism Is Not a Disease — It’s a Different Way of Being 💙 Autism is a developmental disability, not a disease — and that means it...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Apr 101 min read


Autism Is NOT A Parenting Failure
Autism is a neurological difference — not a reflection of how well you parent. It’s not something you caused. It’s not something you...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Apr 81 min read


Creating Emotional Safety for Children with Developmental Disabilities
What is Emotional Safety? Emotional safety means your child feels secure, valued, and accepted — not just when they’re happy and...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Mar 141 min read


Keep Trying Or Walk Away...that is the question????
One of life’s most heart-wrenching crossroads is deciding whether to keep fighting for something — a relationship, a job, a dream — or to...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Mar 131 min read


You Are ENOUGH--Right Now
You are ENOUGH...Right Now You don’t have to wait until you’ve “fixed” something, reached a goal, or become a “better” version of...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Mar 111 min read


New Year Resolution Check In....
We're almost at the end of January. Twenty-four days ago some of us made a number of resolutions..things we'd like to work on and improve...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jan 241 min read


Love Them for Who They Are, Not Who They Might Become!!!
Marrying someone for their potential can be a slippery slope. While it's wonderful to believe in your partner's dreams and abilities,...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jan 211 min read


BIPOC WOMEN...Is Freezing Your Eggs An Option For You?
More and more BIPOC women are embracing egg freezing as a way to preserve their fertility and create options for starting a family on...
Binta Alleyene-Green
Jan 201 min read
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